Monday, February 23, 2009

Are you wired to relapse?

You may have recently heard that Oprah self-admittedly fell off the fitness wagon.

Oprah is not the only person to ever relapse. Unfortunately, many people start to fade away right about now after setting some very achievable New Year Resolutions.

I ran across this article about Oprah and her "fall" and thought you might find it encouraging and motivating.

Have you given up on your fitness goals yet?

"If you are looking for an excuse to fall off the wagon, the universe will provide one."

That was the lesson that Oprah shared in her recent confession about her ongoing struggle with weight. Oprah knows how it feels to fall off the fitness wagon; in the January issue of The Oprah Magazine she described her recent 40 pound weight gain.

Her testimony was filled with valuable insights for anyone else prone to relapse. There was a hidden cycle that I found in her story - one that... exposes the process of falling off the wagon.

1) You Fall: Your fall off the wagon could take place in a single moment, or it could be the result of a drawn out process. Oprah described her fall as one that happened slowly as a result of health problems. These health problems became her reason for not exercising. Illness, vacation, holidays, changes at work or any other change in your schedule are all things that'll get you off the wagon. Once you're off the real damage begins.

2) You Surrender: There comes a point after you fall off the wagon that you simply throw your hands up in the air and give in. For Oprah this was a dramatic moment. "I started eating whatever I wanted - and that's never good. My drug of choice is food. I use food for the same reasons an addict uses drugs: to comfort, to soothe, to ease stress." This is the most destructive part of the cycle. You remove all expectations from yourself and as a result you plummet into an unhealthy realm. The progress that you've made toward your goals is lost and even more weight is gained.

3) You Hit Bottom: Inevitably there comes the moment when you hit bottom. Your body shows the new weight gain and you feel awful about it. For Oprah it was a sobering moment. "I felt completely defeated. I thought- I give up. I give up. Fat wins." She went so far as to say, "I felt like a fat cow. I wanted to disappear." While hitting bottom is never a fun experience, it is a necessary one. The pain must become great enough for you to turn it around and take the control back.

4) You Take Control: Now comes the good part. When you hit bottom you were out of control, now you're ready to once again grab the reigns. Oprah says that "These days I've put myself back on my own priority list." She plans to get an hour of exercise five or six days a week, as well as eating healthfully and reordering her life to include time to replenish her energy. Her new goal is to be strong and healthy and fit.

Have you fallen off your priority list, like Oprah fell off hers?

The time has come to put yourself back on that priority list. The time has come to decide that you are worth it.

Whether you are a client or not, we're here to help you do just that. If your weekly workout frequency has dropped off it's time to recommit. The most fundamental principle to a fitness and weight loss programs success is frequency.

Even the most skilled personal trainer can not design a masterful program that trumps frequency. It would like expecting to drive a golf ball like Tiger Woods just because you bought the same golf clubs, but you only use them twice a year.

If you're not a client, we're here to help you get started on an exercise program that will change your body and your life...just like Oprah. Or maybe you have fallen off the wagon too and need help getting back on. We would love to assist you.

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This article was written by Russ Yeager, fellow Fitness Together owner, in Atlanta, GA.